"It is my response to the world, not the trigger that can get me in trouble."This is one of those thoughts I consider an "eureka" moment. Much easier said than done. To that end, what do I do when I get triggered? When I am dragged through the mud so to speak, and whatever energy I do have is being sapped out of me? Well, I have to be conscious enough of my own state of mind at the get go, to even realize that this non-peaceful trigger is happening. This requires observation.
Start by observing oneself.
How do I do that?
Start today.
Before I go to bed tonight I will write one wish on a piece of paper and place it under my pillow. In the morning I will read the wish again. I will carry that wish with me all day.
Tomorrow I will write another wish and place it under my pillow. ETC.
The idea is simple: The act of making a wish and carrying it all day is a way to begin to observe oneself. Does it come true? Is it pie in the sky? Observing my own way of thinking and desiring is the beginning of consciousness.
The challenge: to make 40 wishes!